deadlegato:

bjdtextconfessions:

I am so tired of the BJD community and its endless need to pick holes in eachother. Why in the world we needed one confession blog is beyond me, now we have three sources for wank and you can even choose whether you want someone elses image behind your mindless shit stirring or just go textual! To think, people still wonder why some collectors simply stop showing or discussing their collections online. We really all get enough crap from outsiders to not need to do eachother down too.

I’m going to risk going unpopular again here and say I think these kind of venting places ARE important. No matter how much you want to love and tolerate everyone, there’s just going to be those little things that steam your buns. And letting them out before you explode and some poor noob gets hit by the shrapnel is important.

And I think people only get upset about the anon aspect because being anon means they don’t know who to troll. 

Yeah, I agree with this. Venting is healthy— and a lot of collectors don’t have people to vent to. I didn’t make any local friends in the BJD jobby, for instance, till I was already in the hobby for years. I truly do think a place like that serves a function— it’s why I mention it so much. I’d be happy to run a blog like this if it gives people a place to blow off some steam.