Terrible choices is usually part of the growing package.
I ACCEPT THIS WHOLEHEARTEDLY and I know that I am similarly terrible. My sister hates when I say this though, even though I mean it: “Just because I accept it though, doesn’t mean I like it.”
I’m like that with my sense of judgement. I’m inclined towards snap judgements that aren’t fair; but by admiting that and being aware of it, I force myself to analyize and look at the real patterns around me. Only way to grow.